Individual and family support

Counselling Services

Compassionate, integrative counselling for children, teenagers, young adults and parents, rooted in attachment, trauma and relational work and informed by somatic approaches. Based in Oxfordshire and online.

Individual and family support

Support shaped around each child and family

Kaya works in an integrative way, meaning sessions are adapted to the age, needs and comfort level of each child or young person. Support may include talking counselling, play, creativity, art, movement, mindfulness and emotional regulation tools.

A flexible and individual approach

The way counselling is offered will depend on the client’s age, circumstances, preferences and therapeutic needs. There is no expectation to communicate or engage in one particular way.

Services and fees

Find the right support for you or your child

How Long Does Counselling Last?

Kaya usually begins with an initial six sessions to see how your child engages with counselling. Some young people benefit from short-term support of up to three months, while others need longer-term counselling. On average, Kaya works with children and teenagers for six to twelve months, with progress reviewed regularly.

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Child & Adolescent Counselling (5–18 years)

£75 per session · 50 minutes

A supportive space for children and young people to better understand themselves, process difficult experiences, connect with their emotions and body, and develop greater confidence and emotional regulation.

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Counselling offers a space where children and young people do not have to perform, please others or have everything figured out. It gives them an opportunity to better understand themselves, process difficult experiences, connect with their emotions and body, and develop greater confidence, emotional regulation and a stronger sense of self at their own pace.

Kaya offers support with a wide range of emotional, relational and developmental difficulties. Some of the most common themes she works with include:

  • Anxiety, overthinking and emotional overwhelm
  • Low mood, low confidence and self-esteem
  • Perfectionism, high achievement and feeling “never good enough”
  • Social anxiety, fear of judgement and difficulties with belonging
  • Friendship and relationship difficulties, bullying and peer challenges
  • School-related difficulties, including emotionally based school avoidance
  • People-pleasing, setting boundaries or recognising their own needs
  • Suppressed anger, big emotions and difficulties with emotional regulation
  • Loneliness, feeling different, misunderstood or disconnected from others
  • Questions around identity, gender, sexual orientation and body image
  • Family separation, divorce, blended families and complex family dynamics
  • Bereavement, loss and significant life transitions
  • Trauma and other difficult or overwhelming experiences
  • Physical or psychosomatic symptoms where emotional experiences and stress may be contributing factors

Kaya welcomes and supports neurodivergent, LGBTQ+ and mixed-heritage children and young people, offering an affirming and culturally sensitive space.

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Parental Consultations

Individual £75 · Joint £95 · 50 minutes

A reflective space for parents who want to better understand their child’s behaviour, emotions and needs, while feeling more confident in their parenting.

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Consultations can support parents with:

  • Understanding what may be behind challenging or changing behaviour
  • Supporting anxiety, emotional overwhelm and big emotions
  • Strengthening communication and parent–child connection
  • Developing co-regulation and emotional regulation strategies
  • Setting clear and compassionate boundaries
  • Navigating conflict and supporting relational repair
  • Understanding recurring patterns and triggers within the family
  • Supporting neurodivergent children and young people
  • Navigating separation, divorce, transitions and other family changes

The aim is not to find the “perfect” way to parent, but to help parents feel more grounded and confident in understanding and responding to their child.

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Joint Parent–Child Sessions

£85 · 60 minutes

A guided space for parents and children to better understand one another, rebuild trust and strengthen their emotional connection.

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Depending on the child’s age and individual needs, sessions may include gentle conversation, creative activities, play-based work, somatic awareness or guided reflection.

Joint parent–child sessions can support with:

  • Strengthening connection and attachment
  • Improving communication and emotional safety
  • Understanding each other’s needs and perspectives
  • Navigating conflict and recurring patterns
  • Supporting relational repair after difficult or painful experiences
  • Developing co-regulation and healthier ways of responding to big emotions
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Inner Child Work

£85 · 60 minutes

A compassionate space to explore how experiences from childhood may still be influencing the way you feel, relate to others and respond to situations in your life today.

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Our early relationships shape how we see ourselves, relate to others and cope with life’s challenges. Sometimes parts of us become “stuck” in childhood, and the coping strategies that once kept us safe—such as people-pleasing, perfectionism or self-abandonment—continue into adulthood, preventing us from developing the emotional freedom and maturity we seek.

Through an integrative, compassionate approach, Kaya helps clients understand these patterns, reconnect with their emotions and needs, and gently attend to and nurture their younger parts.

Inner child work may be particularly helpful for exploring:

  • Codependent relationship patterns
  • Self-abandonment and consistently putting others’ needs before your own
  • People-pleasing and difficulty setting boundaries
  • Perfectionism and feeling “never good enough”
  • Fear of rejection or abandonment
  • Difficulties trusting or feeling safe in relationships
  • Self-criticism, shame and low self-worth
  • Suppressed anger or difficulty expressing emotions
  • Repeating relationship or family patterns
  • Difficulty recognising or expressing your own needs
  • Feeling disconnected from yourself or losing your sense of self in relationships
  • Childhood experiences that continue to affect you in adulthood

Drawing on somatic approaches and concepts from Sensorimotor Psychotherapy and Energy Psychotherapy, Kaya supports clients to explore and process unresolved experiences not only through thoughts and emotions, but also by working at the physical (somatic) and energetic levels.

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Reiki & Reiki-Informed Counselling

£75 · 60 minutes

A gentle, complementary approach for adults seeking relaxation, emotional balance, greater self-awareness and a deeper sense of connection with themselves.

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Reiki is a gentle Japanese energy-based practice that supports relaxation, emotional balance and overall wellbeing. It can be particularly helpful during times of stress, overwhelm, exhaustion or when talking therapy feels too much.

Kaya offers Reiki as a standalone complementary therapy or, where appropriate, alongside counselling and reflective conversation to support both the mind and body.

Reiki and Reiki-informed sessions may support:

  • Relaxation and a greater sense of calm
  • Stress, anxiety and emotional tension
  • Feeling overwhelmed, depleted or emotionally exhausted
  • Reconnecting with your body and yourself
  • Emotional grounding and self-awareness
  • Personal reflection and periods of transition or change

Distant Reiki — £70 · 60 minutes

For those who are unable to attend in person or prefer to receive Reiki from the comfort of their own home, Kaya offers distant Reiki sessions followed by personalised recorded feedback, sharing any observations, impressions or reflections from the session.

Reiki is offered as a complementary wellbeing practice and is not intended to diagnose or treat physical or mental health conditions. It does not replace appropriate medical, psychological or crisis support.

Choosing a service

Not Sure Which Support Is Right?

You do not need to know exactly what type of support you or your child may need before getting in touch. Contact Kaya, share a little about what you are looking for, and she will be happy to guide you towards the most appropriate service.

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